World Outside My Shoes
Awakening curiosity that leads to human connection
To equip and inspire people of all ages to build trusting relationships through restorative thinking and practices.
From their family’s home in Rwanda central Africa, Carl and Teresa Wilkens forged deep bonds with neighbors and co-workers in the years leading up to the 1994 Genocide against the Tutsi. The strength of these bonds was at the forefront of their decision for Carl to stay in Rwanda during the genocide.
Today, Carl draws insights from Rwanda’s restorative decisions following the genocide, to launch conversations that invite us to move toward connecting through curiosity and exploring the World Outside My Shoes in new ways.
In schools, faith communities, business communities, and beyond, Carl uses the transformative process of storytelling and restorative practices to engage participants on questions of polarization, harmful conflict, and belonging. Our individual roles in building human connection is a recurring theme.
WHO WE SERVE
HOW WE ENGAGE
From our grassroots beginning in 2008, World Outside My Shoes has been sharing stories around the globe. At the heart of our work is the belief that human connection is foundational to healing. Using our lens of respect, empathy, and inclusion, we seek to engage people with open-hearted curiosity.
Whether in assemblies or classroom visits, Carl Wilkens packages lessons learned from Rwanda's re-building after the 1994 Genocide Against the Tutsi. Together we explore themes of respect, empathy, inclusion, and belonging with students in primary school through university.
Virtually or in-person, Carl Wilkens shares his harrowing firsthand account of the 100 days of the 1994 Rwandan Genocide against the Tutsi. Through case studies, testimonies and stories, participants will have opportunities to explore the themes of human connection and restoration within themselves and their circle of influence.
This 40-minute documentary shares snapshots through the eyes of multiple perspectives as they navigate the 100 day genocide. Their gut-wrenching choices and unexpected alliances formed leave us with a surprising sense of hope and agency. Schedule a screening followed by an in-person or virtual Q&A session with Carl.
“How can people live together peacefully when betrayal, murder, and genocide is such a recent part of their history?” That’s the question we address as we traverse the scenic hills of Rwanda for 10 days visiting memorials and school campuses, farms and factories, speaking with survivors, perpetrators and government officials, all working together to build a new Rwanda.
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"FINDING THE GOOD"
Since March 2020, we’ve been regularly convening teachers across our World Outside My Shoes network for “Finding the Good” Zoom sessions. On Tuesday evenings, we come together in community to explore themes relevant to classroom engagement: restorative practices, social & emotional learning, non-violent communication, forgiveness, and so much more.
Each session, we review a piece of content meant to inspire discussion & stretch worldviews, and at core, we’re here to build connection among educators.
Want to join our bi-weekly Finding the Good sessions on Tuesdays at 8:30pm ET? Click below!
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